Mending of Broken Heart

            Do you know love? The meaning of love is that you accept a person with all their failures, stupidities, ugly points and perfection in imperfection itself. According to Robert A. Heinlein “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”  Beside that a lover can get broken heart. A broken heart is an unfortunate part of life. When you were broken heart you will feel like being underwater when you need breathe. We build our lives with someone we trust and care for, and then in the blink eyes, it is all gone because they broke our heart. There are three tips to mend a broken heart.
            The first, make time for yourself. You have probably been in relationship for a while, or you have been thinking about that person for a month. Now, is the time for you to moving on and relax. Remove all the memories of that person. It does not mean you hate that person or forget that person forever. It means you are not trying to pretend like the person never existed, just temporarily forget how much they meant to you and how they broke your heart.

            The second is understand and forgiving. Figure out what went wrong in a relationship. Every relationship has strengths and weakness. Figure out what went wrong in your relationship or what was not so great about that person. On this way you can grow in the future or look for better traits in your next partner. Forgiveness is an important part of healing a broken heart. Forgiveness does not happen overnight. It can take a long time to be able to forgive someone, so be sure you are ready to forgive that person.  In order to you need to forgive that person or you will constantly be thinking about them or wondering why they hurt you. You do not have to tell everyone that you have forgiven that person. You can forgive that person silently in your heart.

            The third, turning your life around. You can go on trip to heal your broken heart. It does not need to be far but it should be far enough to give you a little bit of perspective. You also have to open your heart for other person. Do not be afraid to love again. Lila, my friend, tell me that love can make us grow up.  Love would not mean as much if it does not hurt when it is ripped away. Once you feel ready to have relationship, try to start dating with other person. Do not look for perfection person. If you are looking for perfect person, you won’t have much luck in relationship. Give your heart to the right person and they will reward you infinitely.

            In summarize, there are three tips to mend broken heart. They are, making time for yourself, understanding and forgiving and turning your life around. I give suggestion to you do not cry when you broken heart because it can make you weak. Try to smile when you broke heart.